So ever been in a relationship? Great isn't it? At least initially when everything seems so amusing you get to know the other person, the thrill, another mystery to unravel, you have someone to share everything with, someone has your back, someone to talk to whenever you feel like, someone to hold you when you fall, but it's not easy to keep up a relationship, It's more like an exchange of common emotions, it's a two-way street and you have to walk up your path to make things work but only if you can.
Being involved in a relationship is for the few lucky ones and so is getting out of it safe and sound, but before committing to someone else, before believing in someone else, before loving someone else, before making those vows, ask yourself do you even believe in that person you see every day in the mirror? Do you appreciate that person? Are you doing enough for that person? Do you love that person enough?
To be honest, I am the most important person in my life and so are you, I suppose in your respective lives and stories, I am the lead in every movie which runs in my mind and I always get the pretty girl and kill the villain. I am not suggesting being selfish and unkind, I am talking about being self-loving because once you can love yourself unconditionally, you will realize that you are not perfect; you have flaws and start accepting it, maybe work to revamp yourself but until and unless you don't accept yourself then how can you accept someone else
'Happiness comes from within" is it? Do you enjoy your own company? Those thought wandering around in your mind do you embrace them? Can you spend time alone at a beach involved in yourself? Can you go for a trip all by yourself just to spend some time with the one who has been within you? Have you asked yourself lately "how are you?
One cannot be alone, everyone craves for love and care, but it's a nasty world out there, got to be strong; you got to be content to take the hit again and again and not every time not everywhere you would be fortunate enough to have that special one in your life, it's bitter but it's true, so being involved in yourself, being happy with reasons of your own and loving the soul in there, is all the support you need to get through the time when reality strikes.
Once you love yourself, you discover the real person you are and what you really want from this life, the vague soul would see some light and would surely help you achieve more and achieve what matters rather than chasing what others want you to chase, you would be proud of the person you have become, appreciating the life you have, you grow more than you age.
Well I am no expert, I can't even guarantee a successful life on what I am saying, hardships would still be there, heartbreaks would still be there, the pain would still be there but believing in yourself, truly loving the person you are; you could be, I can surely guarantee a life worth surviving may be worth living too.
Himanshu Naranng
Himanshu Naranng
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